Oral sex is often lauded as the cherry on top of the orgasmic cake for both parties involved: an act of vulnerability and utter release, "I'll have what she's having! But for some women? It's simply not that enjoyable , especially when receiving oral inspires thoughts like I wish I showered today. Look at that poster on the wall! Is Banksy female? As for giving?
What is oral sex?
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Recently, I was in bed with a guy whose sheets I'd wanted to get tangled up in for a while. It was our third date, but I was hoping for a thousand more, and we were having the kind of intense and passionate sex that makes you believe that might be possible. I felt so close to him with our eyes locked and our bodies bendy from red wine. But suddenly he pulled away and disappeared beneath the covers, diving headfirst between my thighs. All I could think was, Please don't. Let me be clear: It's not that I hate oral sex. A tongue feels good anywhere it roams, and I'm not bothered by the fact that bodies don't exactly taste like cherry soda all the time.
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Use these moves during foreplay—or make them the main event. What move is more likely to lead to an amazing O? Oral sex —receiving it, that is.
Oral sex is easy if you're trying to kill time before the main event, like politely sitting through an opening act as you prep for the headliner. But why stick with average foreplay when you can turn an appetizer into an entree? OK, we'll cool it with the metaphors. The point is, oral sex matters—and it matters to her that it's more than mediocre.